You know what I am sick and tired of guys!
Yes, I know this sounds like a normal teenage girl rant, but it's not your average one. You see the thing is guys are meant to pursue, they are meant to chase, to ask nicely and to show you when they are interested without being imposing, they are meant to be the ones take the risk for the girl. Call me old fashioned but I believe a girl should never make the first move or have to ask the guy... In my opinoin it is a weakness in character to have been asked out by a girl, even if it turned into a great relationship. What happened to the knight in shinging armour risking his life to fight the dragon and save me from the tower? Am I not worth it?
I know that I am still young and the right guy is out there for me but what about the guys around me? What are they doing??? Waiting for the girl to come to him and she will.... Our society has messed us up and I want it to be right! So yeah I should probably let the guy I'm interested in know, but what about me why should I be the first to make a move? If he is interested shouldn't he be letting me know? Why is it so important that I tell him? He should ask me if he wants to know and even if I have to get over him because he's not interested I would rather risk losing him to some other girl than emasculate his role as the man... Okay so I sound a bit extreme the thing is, flirting is fine girls as long as we know where to stop, and you can tell someone without saying anything. What ever happened to the power of body language?
I am sweet sixteen and never been kissed and I don't think I will be kissed before I'm twenty since the men out there don't have the guts to ask, or if they do that's not the only thing they want from you.
Bring back days of hand-kissing gentlemen that open the door for you allow you to sit down in their stead on public transport and won't pressure you but won't be afraid to give you what you deserve.
This is my plea to young men out there and please listen!
If you want something fight for it! (Don't forget no means no though) girls are just as unsure as you and we want to be the princess in the fairytale whisked off her feet by the charming guy who can protect and love her the way she was meant to be.
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